The easiest way, of course, is to make sure that people are aligned with gods who also have an alignment. That would help.

...Lady Love, Sincerity and I get along. Merriment will go wherever Justice and Piety go. Ambition, Disorder, and Cunning are least likely to detach from one another. Ruin doesn't exactly align with anyone though she likes Cunning, and Fortune and Indulgence have their own ways of thinking that may be swayed.

Indulgence often times has his own agenda and may not always know what it is he's agreeing to. And Fortune ultimately is very kind, but seems to know better than some of us what will and won't be a good option.

A little of both. We haven't spoken much, but that's always been the impression I've received in our exchanges. It may be better to ask her yourself. She may be more honest.